What to wear as a wedding guest comes down to the invite’s dress code. Match the level (casual, cocktail, formal, or black-tie) and you’ll look appropriate and feel confident. Here’s a quick guide by dress code, plus how to plan and save your look so you’re ready when the day comes.
What does the dress code mean?
Invitations usually spell it out. If they don’t, time of day and venue are good clues: afternoon garden = often casual or cocktail; evening ballroom = often formal or black-tie.
- Casual: Relaxed but neat. Think sundresses, smart separates, loafers or clean sneakers. Avoid shorts, flip-flops, and anything too ripped or sloppy.
- Cocktail / semi-formal: Knee-length or midi dresses, dressy jumpsuits, or a blazer with tailored trousers. Dark or jewel tones work well.
- Formal / black-tie optional: Floor-length gowns, elegant midi dresses, or a dark suit. Dress up rather than down.
- Black-tie: Floor-length gowns or very dressy cocktail length; tuxedo or dark suit for men. Keep it classic and polished.
What to wear to a casual wedding
- Women: Flowy midi dress, tailored jumpsuit, or a nice blouse with trousers or a skirt. Soft colors or subtle prints are safe.
- Men: Chinos or dress trousers with a collared shirt; blazer optional. Clean, minimal sneakers or loafers can work if the vibe is relaxed.
- Don’t: Wear white or cream (reserved for the couple). Avoid anything that looks like you’re going to the gym or the beach.
What to wear to a cocktail or semi-formal wedding
- Women: Knee-length or midi dress, or a dressy jumpsuit. You can go bolder with color or a simple pattern.
- Men: Suit (navy, gray, or black) or blazer with dress trousers and a dress shirt. Tie optional depending on the invite.
- Don’t: Overdo sparkle or anything that reads “bridal.” Skip very short or overly revealing cuts unless the venue is clearly party-focused.
What to wear to a formal or black-tie wedding
- Women: Floor-length gown or a very dressy midi. Elegant fabrics (silk, satin, chiffon) and solid or subtle prints.
- Men: Tuxedo or dark suit, white or light dress shirt, bow tie or tie, and dress shoes.
- Don’t: Wear white, ivory, or champagne if it could photograph like the bride’s dress. When in doubt, choose another color.
How to avoid “nothing to wear” the week of the wedding
Pull options from what you already own. A digital closet lets you see all your dressy pieces in one place and mix tops, bottoms, and shoes until you have a full look. Plan and save your wedding guest outfit in your digital closet with DripCheck so you’re not scrambling the night before.
Quick tips before you go
- Dress code confirmed (invite or venue).
- Outfit doesn't read white/cream/ivory.
- Shoes and accessories match the formality.
- You feel comfortable and like yourself.
FAQ
Can I wear a short dress to a formal wedding?
If the invite says “formal” or “black-tie,” floor-length is the safest choice. Short cocktail dresses are better for “cocktail” or “semi-formal.”
What colors should wedding guests avoid?
Avoid white, ivory, cream, and sometimes champagne or very light silver so you don’t compete with the couple. Otherwise, most colors are fine.
What if the invite doesn’t specify a dress code?
Use the time and place as a guide: daytime outdoor often leans casual or cocktail; evening indoor often leans formal. When unsure, slightly dress up.
Plan and save your wedding guest look in your digital closet with DripCheck. Add your pieces by photo, filter by occasion, and lock in one outfit so you’re ready for the big day.
